Matchmade · Intake Form

Let’s Find You Love

Hi! Thank you so much for filling out (or revisiting) our form. ❤️ Based on some of the largest relationship studies, we’ve revamped our questions to provide even better matchmaking. As always, everything you share here is kept private — we only use basic details to create blurbs. Your progress is saved automatically as long as you come back using the same browser on the same device, and you can skip around using the section tabs below. 😊

1Basics
2Physical
3Ethnicity
4Religion
5Food Preferences
6Career
7Location
8Relationship Goals
9Age Range
10Values
11Lifestyle
12EQ
13Your Words
14Priority
15Photos
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The Basics
Contact info, identity, and core demographics

Let’s start with the basics — who are you?

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How young are you? 😉

MaleFemaleNon-binaryOpen to any
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Physical & Appearance
Kept private — used for matching only
About Me
Partner Preferences
Slim / LeanAthletic / FitAverageCurvyFull-figured / Plus-sizeMuscularNo strong preference
03
Ethnicity & Cultural Identity
Three-part breakdown so we can match with precision
About Me
Yes — family dealbreakerThey have a preference but are flexibleNo — my family is fully openNot applicable
Partner Preferences
Must match my backgroundStrong preference but flexibleWould be nice but not a requirementCompletely open
South AsianEast AsianSoutheast AsianMiddle EasternWhite / CaucasianBlack / African AmericanHispanic / LatinoMixed / MultiracialOpen to any
04
Religion & Spirituality
Faith background, practice level, and what you're looking for
About Me
Very religious — active daily practiceModerately religiousCultural / family traditions onlySpiritual but not religiousNot religious
Partner Preferences
Must match my backgroundStrong preference but flexibleWould be nice but not a requirementCompletely open
HinduMuslimSikhChristianJewishJainBuddhistAtheist / AgnosticSpiritual (any)Any / All

If you have a specific preference within a religion, please share here. If no strict preference, skip this.

Must match my practice levelSimilar level preferredOpen to growth — level doesn't matter but mindset doesNo preference
05
Food Preferences
Important for daily compatibility and family meals
Strict vegetarianMostly vegetarian (occasional exceptions)Eggetarian (eggs only)Pescatarian (fish/seafood only)Chicken / eggs only (no red meat)Non-vegetarian (eat everything)VeganJain vegetarian (no root vegetables)
Must be vegetarianPrefer vegetarian but flexibleNo preferencePrefer non-vegetarian
06
Career & Education
Ambition, trajectory, and background
About Me

So, what do you do? (Besides looking for love)

Highly ambitious — career is central to my identityAmbitious — work hard but balance mattersSteady — stable and fulfilled but not climbingFlexible — life over career
Partner Preferences
07
Location & Life Logistics
Where you are, where you're going, how flexible you are
About Me
Yes — fully openYes — bicoastal with a plan to convergeWithin ~3 hours onlyNo — same city preferred
Yes — fully flexiblePossibly — depends on the cityOnly within same state / regionNo — I'm rooted
Partner Preferences

Pick specific states — select a region header to expand it

▶ Northeast
ConnecticutDelawareMaineMarylandMassachusettsNew HampshireNew JerseyNew YorkPennsylvaniaRhode IslandVermontWashington D.C.
▶ Southeast
AlabamaArkansasFloridaGeorgiaKentuckyLouisianaMississippiNorth CarolinaSouth CarolinaTennesseeVirginiaWest Virginia
▶ Midwest
IllinoisIndianaIowaKansasMichiganMinnesotaMissouriNebraskaNorth DakotaOhioSouth DakotaWisconsin
▶ Southwest
ArizonaNew MexicoOklahomaTexas
▶ Mountain West
ColoradoIdahoMontanaNevadaUtahWyoming
▶ West Coast
CaliforniaOregonWashingtonHawaiiAlaska
▶ International
CanadaUK / EuropeIndiaOther International
Open to Anywhere

Same regions — pick the states where you could see yourself long-term

▶ Northeast
ConnecticutDelawareMaineMarylandMassachusettsNew HampshireNew JerseyNew YorkPennsylvaniaRhode IslandVermontWashington D.C.
▶ Southeast
AlabamaArkansasFloridaGeorgiaKentuckyLouisianaMississippiNorth CarolinaSouth CarolinaTennesseeVirginiaWest Virginia
▶ Midwest
IllinoisIndianaIowaKansasMichiganMinnesotaMissouriNebraskaNorth DakotaOhioSouth DakotaWisconsin
▶ Southwest
ArizonaNew MexicoOklahomaTexas
▶ Mountain West
ColoradoIdahoMontanaNevadaUtahWyoming
▶ West Coast
CaliforniaOregonWashingtonHawaiiAlaska
▶ International
CanadaUK / EuropeIndiaOther International
Flexible / No Preference
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Relationship Goals & Readiness
What you're building toward and how ready you are
Serious relationship leading to marriageLong-term committed relationshipOpen to where it goesNot sure yet
Yes — non-negotiableYes — stronglyOpen to it but not requiredDefinitely notI already have children
Yes — open to itDepends on the situationNo — I prefer no existing children
Yes — open to itDepends on the situationNo — I prefer someone who hasn't been married
Yes — must be born & raised in the USOK if they moved to the US/UK under 10 years oldOK if they moved to the US/UK between 10–20OK if they spent most of their life in IndiaNo preference
Still figuring things out100% ready
NoPreviously engaged (not married)Previously married / divorcedPrefer not to say
HingeBumbleDil MilMirchiThe LeagueCoffee Meets BagelShaadi.comMuzmatchSitchOther
Mohan MatchmakingSingle to ShaadiTawkifyOther

Be as descriptive as possible — what's the biggest insight you're carrying forward?

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Partner Age Range
Who you're open to meeting
10
Values & Personality
Who you are at your core — and what you need
Family firstIntegrity / HonestyAmbition / GrowthEmotional intelligenceAdventure / CuriosityCommunity & giving backFinancial stabilityCreativitySpirituality / FaithIndependenceCommunicationLoyaltyFun / HumorWork-life balance
Nerdy / IntellectualOutdoorsy / AdventurousCreative / ArtsySocial butterflyHomebody / CozyAmbitious / HustleSpiritual / GroundedGoofy / PlayfulQuiet / IntrospectiveSporty / AthleticType A / DrivenLaid back / Easy-going
Emotional maturityKindness / WarmthAmbitionClear communicationFinancial responsibilityLoyalty / FaithfulnessSense of humorIntellectual curiosityFamily-orientedIndependence / ConfidenceEmpathyGroundedness / StabilityRespectful (to everyone)Self-aware / done inner workSupportive of my goalsSocial / community-oriented
Nerdy / IntellectualOutdoorsy / AdventurousCreative / ArtsySocial butterflyHomebody / CozyAmbitious / HustleSpiritual / GroundedGoofy / PlayfulQuiet / IntrospectiveSporty / AthleticType A / DrivenLaid back / Easy-going

Please be honest! We won't share this information — we just use the information behind the scenes to find your best potential matches

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Lifestyle & Day-to-Day
Habits, interests, family dynamics
About Me
No — neverRarely / sociallyOccasionallyRegularly
NoOccasionally / sociallyRegularly
Not activeLight (walks / casual)Moderately active (3–4x/week)Very active (5+/week)Athlete / fitness-focused
TravelCooking / foodFitness / gymHiking / outdoorsMusicArt / designReadingFilm / TVSports (playing)Sports (watching)GamingEntrepreneurshipCommunity / volunteeringDanceYoga / meditationTech & scienceFashion / style
Partner Lifestyle Preferences
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Emotional Intelligence & Relationship Patterns
The highest-signal questions — our matchmakers read these most carefully. Be real.
These six questions are grounded in relationship science. They surface emotional maturity, attachment patterns, and conflict style — the three things that predict long-term compatibility more than anything else. There are no right answers.

What does a hard conversation look like for you? Do you need space first, or talk it through immediately?

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For example, "I need consistent communication" and "I tend to pull away when I'm unsure" are both valid.

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The ability to see your own part is one of the clearest signs of emotional maturity.

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Two people can both say "family first" and have completely different definitions. Walk us through what partnership looks like for you.

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Please be honest.

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Reveals reliability during hard stretches — not just at your best.

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In Your Own Words
The 10% that makes you human — keep it honest, keep it real
These four questions are the ones our matchmakers read most carefully. They're where your personality comes through. Be yourself.

What makes you feel most like yourself?

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What moments define you?

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Last stretch — this is where you really show up

What does a Tuesday look like, or a regular Saturday?

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Answer this, even if you're not sure about kids! Reveals what you most deeply admire.

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Dealbreakers, hard must-haves, family constraints, anything specific to your situation.

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Priority Matching & Referrals
One last thing
Yes — sign me upI'm already in priority matchingTell me more firstNo — standard service for now
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Photos
Help us put a face to your profile

If you have already submitted photos to us, no worries at all. Your existing photos will be migrated over to your updated profile! You can skip this section entirely.

If you do have new photos you'd like to include, feel free to email them to us at loml@matchmade.co. We recommend three to four recent, accurate photos from the past year. Six months is even better!

If you're not sure what types of photos to include, here is our photo guide of the types of photos we like to use.